Having sex with your partner in the same old position and in the same old technique can often prove to be boring for the two of you. There is nothing wrong to spice up things a bit to bring about a touch of newness in the act. Every couple like to experience something new, every time they have sex with their partners.
There is nothing wrong if you or your partner wish to experience more intense and stronger orgasms. The best way to go about experiencing it is with the help of a prostate massager. You may say that this type of massager is a new gateway to a whole new world of erotic pleasure.
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What Do You Mean by a Prostate Massage?
To put it in simple words, the mere act of applying gentle pressure on a man’s prostate gland and rubbing it at the same time can be termed as a prostate massage. The act can be performed with the help of a toy or even your fingers. You will come across some guys who use vibrators and some use dildos for the same purpose. It does not matter what you use and how you do it, as long as it is safe for use and also designed for the purpose.
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Tips for Using a Prostate Massager
When it comes to using any sex toy for the first time, it is always a good thing to know about some tips so that you get the most pleasure out of it. Similar is the case with a prostate massager. Here are 3 useful tips for using a prostate massager.
- Sit Back and Relax: Even before you decide to use your prostate massager, it is very important that you sit back and relax both your body and mind. This is a rather essential preparation in order to enjoy a successful session. Either a soothing music or a hot shower or a body massage or even a combination of all of these should do the trick for you.
- Have Sufficient Time: It is important for you to understand that using a prostate massager is nothing like the traditional masturbation with your penis, where you can easily get it over with within a few minutes. When you decide to use the prostate massager, it is always a good idea to set aside an hour minimum. If you can set aside 2 hours that would be great. Being in a hurry will mean nothing to you.
- Fingers Vs Toys: There is nothing wrong in using your fingers for massaging your prostate. However, using a dedicated prostate toy is always a better idea. Many of you may not even find your toys as effective as your toys. Your fingers are not too long enough and are too skinny, as well. Applying steady pressure with your fingers is also not possible all the time. Prostate massagers are think and gives the feeling of your rectum being full all the time. This is where your fingers lose the competition.